10 EASY ways to tell fake friends from real friends

How do you tell if a friend is fake or not? It’s not easy because nobody is just good or bad. We all got good sides and bad sides.

But in some people or relationships, the bad sides take over. And that’s when you got a fake friend.

Here are 10 signs that will help us tell your fake friends from your real ones.

Fake friends are not interested in you, they’re only interested in themselves. A good sign to tell is that they almost only talk about themselves.

1. Do they apologize and owe their mistakes up to you?

My best friend once forgot about our date and I was left alone in the middle of town. I called him and he was extremely embarrassed and apologetic about it. He later made up for it by making a fantastic lunch for me.

A fake friend would probably not really care, maybe they would be a bit annoyed or irritated that you even mentioned it.

Real friends make mistakes, but they own up to them and apologize. Fake friends don’t.

2. Do they lie to you or others?

A white lie is one thing, but if someone regularly lies, that’s a good way to tell they don’t have a good character.

It’s not easy to know if they’re lying to you, but it’s usually easier to see if they’re lying to others or if they’re insincere.

3. How do they make you feel about yourself?

This is a tricky sign. But ask yourself how you feel when you are with your friends? And how do you feel afterward? Did they do or say anything that affected your mood negatively?

If your situation is hard to read, describe it in the comments below and I’ll help you out!

Here’s what bad friends can make you feel like:

  • You feel bad about yourself
  • You feel there’s something wrong with you
  • You feel you’re not good enough
  • You feel you need to change yourself to fit in
  • You feel ashamed about yourself

Real friends lift you up and make you feel good about yourself.

4. Are they critical of your achievements?

Fake friends criticize

Good friends can give constructive criticism when you need it, but mostly they just support you and make sure you know how awesome you are for your achievement.

5. Do they understand your limitations?

Real friends understand when you can’t or don’t want to do something.

Fake friends will expect a lot from you, and get angry or irritated when you disappoint them.

Real friends have reasonable expectations on you, and they are understanding of your mistakes and flaws.

6. How do they react when you tell them something you’re proud or happy about?

Fake friends get envious and jealous when you do good and they will probably try to put you down in those situations.

Good friends will be happy for you.

7. Do they act differently when around others?

Are they mean when you are one-on-one, but “fake nice” when around others? Or is it the other way around, that they’re nice one-on-one and mean toward you around others?

Fake friends act differently when other people are around. This is a manipulative behavior that’s not acceptable.

8. Do they talk bad about you behind your back?

Fake friends talk shit and gossip about others with you. That’s a sign that they might gossip when you can’t hear it.

Real friends mostly say good things about others and good things about you.

9. Can you trust them to keep a secret?

Fake friends will tell your secrets to others because they don’t really care about you.

Real friends can be trusted with your secrets. It’s not black and white, but if someone has betrayed your trust more than once (and not apologized!), it might be time to rethink your relationship.

10. Do they try to one-up you?

Fake friends will try to one-up you. For example, if you tell them you got a new phone, they will claim their phone is better, or they will criticize your phone.

The reason they act like this is often because they have an inferiority complex and need to prove they’re better than everyone else.

Thanks for reading! Xoxo


In all seriousness though, I feel like I have learned so many life lessons that I want to share them all with you! So, grab your favorite hot beverage, get comfortable, and enjoy the read my friends!


1. Don’t let anyone tell you that you are doing ‘life’ wrong

There are many ways to live, we just have to find what works best for us; we shouldn’t let anyone else decide how we should live. 

2. Trust your instincts

Always, always, ALWAYS trust your inner voice and your heart, doing so has saved me many times.

3. Be present

We need to put down our devices and really be there for our loved ones; we need to actually listen to them without looking down at our electronics. So, enjoy the present because it will become your past before you know it.  

4. Take those first steps

Sometimes, we want to dive into something big, but this can be intimidating, thus preventing us from living out our true passion. Instead of diving into a big ocean, try dipping your toes into a pond then move onto splashing into your passion. Before you know it, you will be swimming in success!

5. Practice self love

This is a big one! Love yourself just the way you are, flaws and everything! Moreover, don’t blame yourself for your past mistakes, but think of your mistakes as lessons learned. 

6. Don’t let the negativity bring you down

It’s easy to get distracted by the negativity in this world- from strangers and even from those you know personally- but, don’t let it bring you down and distract you from reaching your goals.

7. Say ‘’no’’ to save your sanity

We can’t do it all, we just can’t. We need to learn to say ‘’no’’ sometimes, just to save our sanity. We also have to realize that it’s better to say ”no” at the present moment than take on too much and drown ourselves later on.

8. Faith gets you through the toughest times

I have fallen countless times throughout my life, but the one thing that helps me recover each and every time is my FAITH.

9. It’s never too late to work on your inner self

I have life goals that I have been working on since childhood, and I also have personal goals that I have started working towards as an adult; both are goals worth working towards because I know they are a part of my journey to becoming the best version of myself. 

10. Do more of what you love

There is so much power in doing things you love, so much peace that comes from this. So, do more of what you LOVE.

11. Just because you break down from time to time, this does not mean that you are broken

When you break down, look at it as an opportunity to build yourself up again, but this time build yourself up with more strength and power then before!

12. God is the best of all planners

There have been many times where I thought things were not working out for me, but in the end, I realized things were going exactly as God planned for me and HIS plans were indeed the BEST.

13. Don’t take things personally

This was a hard lesson for me to learn, as I did take things personally for a very long time. Through the years, I started to realize that the way individuals behave has nothing to do with me, but it says a lot about their insecurities, their struggles, and their character. 

14. Love with your soul

There’s loving others, but then there’s loving others with your soul. As time passes, you realize what the difference is between the two and you start loving with your soul more often because you know how it feels to be loved this way yourself.

15. Don’t compare yourself to others

We should not drain ourselves by comparing ourselves to others. We don’t know what others are going through, they could have it worse than us.  We are all in a different place and our situations vary, no two people are exactly the same, so just focus on staying on your own path. 

16. Make time for self care

Sometimes, we are so busy doing things for others, we forget about ourselves, and that’s why it’s important to make time for yourself. So, slow down and pamper yourself in the way you know best- you deserve it! 

17.  It’s okay to delete individuals from your life

I used to feel guilty about this one, but I learned that sometimes you can’t change people, but you can move away from them- and sometimes you NEED to distance yourself from people who are hurtful.

18. No one person has it all

There is no such thing as a person who has it ALL. In fact, one of the tests of this life is how we choose to live without that one thing we want the most, but don’t have! 

19. One act of kindness can change someone’s life

No act of kindness goes wasted, sometimes the tiniest gesture has the power to make a large impact on someone’s day, and even his or her life.

20. Build a support system

Surround yourself with people who will cheer you on when you are down, who will inspire you to pursue your passions, and who will always be there for you no matter what.  

21. Aim for peace

If we all aim for peace, then this world will become a beautiful place to live in.

22. Set realistic goals

The more realistic your goals are, the more easier you will be able to attain them, and thus you will feel more empowered to continue going further. 

23. We all struggle

No one person goes through this life without any hardships. We all struggle with something, but what matters is how we get through this struggle and the lessons we learn while fighting through our hardships.

24. Ask and He will give

It is never too late to turn to God for help, all you have to do is ask Him and He will answer your prayers.

25. It’s okay to reach out for help

Know that asking for help does not mean that you are weak, it means that you are strong enough to reach out.

26. Learn from others

Sometimes, people are placed in our lives to teach us lessons, so make sure you pay attention to what their purpose is.

27. Embrace change

Don’t think of change as something that should be intimidating, but rather look at it as a start to something new and exciting

28. Be brave

Be brave enough to be the unique you and to put your own spin on things- because differentis beautiful! 

29. Have the right intention

If you start something with the right intention, it will flourish into something amazing. If you turn something down with the right intention, then something better will come your way.

30. Beauty starts with the soul

The true definition of beauty is how you treat others, the respect, love, and kindness you show towards those around you.

The one theme that these life lessons all have in common is that there will be a time in your life where you feel like you are losing, but what you don’t know is that you are still a winner for not giving up. Take your time to rest, to take a break from it all, and then regain your energy and fight your way through the storm. If anything, the moments of darkness will help you to fight for the light even more.

Much peace and love always,


Is Mint good for acne?

YES! My skin is usually pretty good, until something important comes up, then it’s constellation time and it literally looks like I have the Big Dipper on my face. Luckily, fighting acne with at home remedies can be gentle and extremely effective. Try this very easy method to combat those little red devils!
Mint has great clarifying qualities and will aid your skin in banishing blemishes. It has been used for centuries as a natural way to fight acne.
Take Pure Mint Juice (hard to find, so you may need to squeeze it out yourself) and apply it directly on your face before you sleep. Wash face when you wake up. Also If you are suffering from dry skin, mint leaves can help. All you need to do is grind them and squeeze the juice out of them. Apply this juice on your dry skin and see the results for yourself.

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xOxO 💋